Thursday, October 31, 2013

Becoming a Parent

Alexis Madrigal has this reflection as he looks at his newborn son: 
 I feel, like a newborn, unsure when to eat, in-and-out of the dream world, and as likely to provide a coherent answer about fatherhood as my little boy is when we ask, "Why are you the most beautiful thing on Earth?" 

Start writing a novel tomorrow.

In 2011, I wrote a novel during the month of November.  Was it a finished product on November 30?  No.  Heck no.  Was it good?  Probably not.  But for the most part, it was an enjoyable experience, and I learned as much about writing as I’ve ever learned in a writing course.  I wish I had done this twenty years ago.

The incentive to do this was the National Novel Writing Month project found at NaNoWriMo.org.  They describe their project like this: 
National Novel Writing Month (NaNoWriMo) is a fun, seat-of-your-pants approach to creative writing. On November 1, participants begin working towards the goal of writing a 50,000-word novel by 11:59 p.m. on November 30. Valuing enthusiasm, determination, and a deadline, NaNoWriMo is for anyone who has ever thought fleetingly about writing a novel. 

Wednesday, October 30, 2013

Futile Votes?

I write my house representative and she writes back pretty much ignoring what I’ve asked her about. Her way is not my way. I think of that letter as one of the many futile votes I’ve cast in my life.  But sometimes I imagine a conversation with my senator or house representative.  “How do you balance it?” I would ask.  “Your constituents want opposing things.  You run on a certain platform and then you get a ton of mail requesting the opposite.  What is your obligation?”

Jamelle Bouie writes today at The Daily Beast about the job of a legislature: 

Tuesday, October 29, 2013

"Evil" by Langston Hughes

Looks like what drives me crazy
Don't have no effect on you--
But I'm gonna keep on at it
Till it drives you crazy, too.

Sunday, October 27, 2013

Hooked on Classics, Sunday Music

For my birthday last month, I received a CD mix from my daughter.  One of the selections was parts 1 and 2 from Hooked on Classics.  We listened to this at some point when she was growing up, and listening again was wordless emotional travel though time.  It's also kind of cool as are these accompanying pictures.  

Saturday, October 26, 2013

12 Years a Slave


I've been reading and listening to discussion about this film.  Terry Gross interviewed Steve McQueen who explained why he wanted to make the movie:
[My wife] found this book called 12 Years a Slave, and I read this book, and I was totally stunned. It was like a bolt coming out of the sky; at the same time I was pretty upset with myself that I didn't know this book. ... Slowly but surely I realized that most people, in fact all the people I knew did not know this book. I live in Amsterdam where Anne Frank is a national hero. She's not just a national hero, she's a world hero, and for me this book read like Anne Frank's diary but written 97 years before — a firsthand account of slavery. I basically made it my passion to make this book into a film.
Gross interviews the historian David Blight who says,
[I]t's important for Americans to remember this history…because, to be quite blunt about it, most Americans want their history to be essentially progressive and triumphal, they want it to be a pleasing story. And if you go back to this story, it's not always going to please you, but it's a story you have to work through to find your way to something more redemptive.
Leonard Pitts says, “The film is not just brilliant. It’s necessary."

I don’t, for the most part watch violent movies, and from what I hear, this film will be painful to watch. Has anybody seen it?  What did you think?

Friday, October 25, 2013

Thursday, October 24, 2013

Progress Happens in Unpredictable Ways

Here's the New Republic on the death penalty: 
Thirty-two states retain the death penalty in the U.S., but a new obstacle is making it increasingly difficult for them to carry it out. Pharmaceutical companies are taking a moral stand. The manufacturers of the drugs required by state departments of corrections for executions are saying they will not allow their products to be employed in this way. Manufacturers in the UK, US, Denmark, Israel, Switzerland, Germany, Austria, and India have taken steps to prevent their drugs being used in executions.

This has had an astonishing effect. Shortages of lethal injection drugs and attendant litigation have resulted in moratoriaan official halting of executionsin Arkansas, California, Kentucky, Louisiana, Maryland, Missouri, Montana, Nebraska, North Carolina, Oregon, and Tennessee. 
I notice Texas and my state, Indiana, are not on this list of states halting executions.  The New Republic article describes some of the crazy strategies Texas uses to obtain drugs for execution. Still, from my view, this is progress from an unexpected source.

Monday, October 21, 2013

Etc., Etc., Etc

On December 14, 2012, Adam Lanza killed 20 students and 6 staff members at Sandy Hook elementary school.  Like many who learned of this tragedy, I was stunned and began reading a lot of articles about gun policy in the U. S.  I was reading so much, I decided to reactivate my blog and start posting some of the things I was learning.  I wrote eleven posts in December, seven about gun policy.  Looking back at January and February, I can see I had already mostly stopped writing about guns.  I guess there’s only so much one can say, but there is also a feeling that I’ve just given up.  I joined two groups, Moms Demand Action and Americans for Responsible Solutions and sent them donations.  I’ve sent letters to my representatives and read their lame replies about how they support the second amendment.

Everyday, guns kill people, often in suicides that don’t make the news or statistics.  Today, there was another shooting in a middle school, another reminder to grieve and send letters to my legislatures.

Late last December, I posted the question, how many people have been killed by guns since Newtown?  The answer was 160.  Today, the answer to that question is 9,675.  What's next?


Sunday, October 20, 2013

We all need a pep talk...

This Sunday song/video is schmaltzy, cute, SWEET, and contains a hopeful message.  Please click.

From Maya Angelou

Seek Patience

Seek patience
and passion
in equal amounts.

Patience alone
will not build the temple.

Passion alone
will destroy its walls.


(Thanks to Chip)

Saturday, October 19, 2013

Humbling Thoughts

I keeping thinking that I’ll write a post on why Ta-Nehisi Coates is my favorite writer, but so far, I can’t do him justice.  This recent passage below, however, is one of my reasons.  
It is not enough to know that you are the descendant of slaves--you should also understand how easily you could have been the slave-master. You don't read George Fitzhugh to assure yourself that there is evil in the world. Auschwitz is all around us. Auschwitz is alive and well and living in your noble heart. The existence of evil is the premise. The discussion must proceed from there.  
Years ago, when I was reading Slaves in the Family by Edward Ball, I realized that if I had been a southerner in 1830, I too might have thought slavery was natural and right.  It was, in a way, a life-changing thought.  Coates says history “is sometimes rage-inducing. But in the end it should be humbling.”  Yes.


Thursday, October 17, 2013

What You Probably Already Know

Standard & Poor’s estimated that the shutdown of the government cost the economy around twenty-four billion dollars.


Wednesday, October 16, 2013

A Community Creation

Yesterday I finally joined the painters at the Michigan Street Bridge project (South Bend, IN).  It is touching how much community involvement has helped to make this project happen.  Close to a thousand people have helped paint. The design incorporates a number of South Bend landmarks into a semi-abstract design.  Designer Chris Stacowicz says, it's s"like visual hip-hop of the different spaces...”  
  
Stacowicz is pleased that this project is funded without any tax dollars.  The project is supported by the Community Foundation, Memorial Hospital, Outpost Sports, Home Depot, Behr Paint, YMCA, The Center for the Homeless, and others.  Companies like Slatile Roofing and Casteel Construction have provided scaffolding and other needed apparatus. In the picture above, we’re eating a lunch donated by Subway.  Other local restaurants donate food on other days.   

The project will be finished soon.  Read more about it here and here.  Picture by Kathy P.


Tuesday, October 15, 2013

Committee Members and Tomatoes

Recently I did some committee work with a woman who seemed to have a negative comment and prediction about everything.  It didn’t take long before her comments began to irritate me.  In a small way, they became painful.  Then I felt bad about my thoughts, and that “You’re too judgmental recording,” started playing.  I managed to stop myself from doing a little internal rant about her personality deficiencies. 

Later I thought about tomatoes.  I really don’t like the taste of raw tomatoes.  It’s not a judgment; to me, they’re just icky!  The tomatoes themselves are innocent, and I love the role they play in pasta, pizza, and chili, but the taste and texture of raw tomatoes make me gag.

Thursday, October 10, 2013

Children Should Play

When I was a child in the 1950s, my friends and I had two educations. We had school (which was not the big deal it is today), and we also had what I call a hunter-gather education. We played in mixed-age neighbourhood groups almost every day after school, often until dark. We played all weekend and all summer long. We had time to explore in all sorts of ways, and also time to become bored and figure out how to overcome boredom, time to get into trouble and find our way out of it, time to daydream, time to immerse ourselves in hobbies, and time to read comics and whatever else we wanted to read rather than the books assigned to us. What I learnt in my hunter-gatherer education has been far more valuable to my adult life than what I learnt in school, and I think others in my age group would say the same if they took time to think about it. 

Tuesday, October 08, 2013

My Values Are Better than Your Values!, cont.

A man I was once close to said to me, “I know I’m right; I’ve thought about his.”  I didn’t have it in me to laugh, but this statement had a humorous side.  He implied that only he thought about things when of course, I had thought about it too and arrived at a different conclusion.

Monday, October 07, 2013

My Values Are Better than Your Values!

Yesterday I wrote about my frustration with the Republican Party and the government shutdown.  Today I return to a question I have asked before:  Can we be peaceful and loving people and still care about the politics of our country?  Ann Lamott writes this today: 
[My family] felt, and taught, that our family was better than other families, because we had gorgeous classical and jazz on the hi-fi, and worshipped at church of Julia Child, and the New Yorker Holiness Temple. I knew how to unpack a New Yorker cartoon by the age of six. We knew enough to hike, and support the Sierra Club. My Uncle Rex famously rolled down his car window and shouter "Litterer!" at people in the early sixties who tossed stuff out the windows as they drove. Being a Litterer was right up there with being KKK, or the pre-curser of the modern Tea Party, the John Birch Society…
We were better than all of them, because of our values, which were obviously the correct values to hold. Otherwise, we would have had other values. 

I can relate to this, and I know it is flawed.  I’m not sure how to handle politics, but the above is a good reminder that most everyone thinks they have the correct values.  Otherwise, we would have other values.

Sunday, October 06, 2013

Music and Dance

Here’s another borrowed idea from Andrew Sullivan’s site.  The acrobatics in this video are amazing.  The rap, ok.


Saturday, October 05, 2013

All Parties Are Not to Blame

Can I burn down your house?
No
Just the 2nd floor?
 No Garage?
No
Let's talk about what I can burn down.
No
YOU AREN'T COMPROMISING!

I think the source of this little dialogue is Judd Legume of Mother Jones Magazine.

Here Jim Fallows gives two reasons why this problem is so limited in it’s causes: 

Thursday, October 03, 2013

The Price of a Shutdown

In a research note Tuesday, J.P. Morgan analysts estimated that federal furloughs will reduce national income by a total of $1.3 billion per week. As a result, the shutdown could shave 0.12 percent off fourth quarter GDP growth for each week it goes on. That forecast doesn’t account for any knock-on effects on the private sector or dent in economic confidence which are harder to quantify.
I wish I had something original to say about this shutdown, but I don’t.  I sent the passage above to my House representative this morning.

Tuesday, October 01, 2013

Stop Complaining

Complaining is one of the ego’s favorite strategies for strengthening itself.  Every complaint is a little story the mind makes up that you completely believe in….Resentment is the emotion that goes with complaining and the mental labeling of people adds even more energy to the ego…. Complaining is not to be confused with informing someone of a mistake or deficiency so that it can be put right.  (Eckhart Tolle, A New Earth) 
This passage seems appropriate for a day when the government has been shut down, but separating the two—feeding the ego and putting things right—is no easy job.